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 (The code of conduct applies to everyone present at the formal)

   

“We must practice modesty, not only in our looks, but also in our whole deportment, and particularly in our dress, our walk, our conversation, and all similar actions.” – St. Alphosus Maria de Liguori

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In order to ensure that everyone knows what will be permitted and discouraged, we have incorporated some etiquette rules. We hope this will help ease your fears and address any concerns you may have about what will be expected of you at the event. Serious violations may result in being asked to leave. Let us bring honor to God and our parents/guardians. (Matthew 5:16)

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1. At the beginning of the evening all attendees will be checked in and given a stamp as they enter the event. That stamp should be worn for duration of the evening. Once you leave the premises, no reentry will be allowed. No ins and outs. The stamp will be voided as you exit the building. If you absolutely need something from your vehicle two chaperones will be happy to escort you!

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2. There are several lines dances and group dances planned that will allow friends to dance together and in groups having fun without pressure of intimacy. Proper dance etiquette and behavior require that there will be no body against body dancing, groping, or provocative movements/dirty dancing, and no moshing. Let’s keep it fun and safe.

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3. No Dating, “Going-Out”, or boyfriend girlfriend relationships are to be displayed. Refrain from PDA (Public Display of Affection) that includes behaviors like kissing, hand holding, cuddling, girls sitting on boy’s laps or vice versa and extended hugs or embraces. (These are just some examples.) We are here to enjoy ourselves and fellowship with one another. Every family

has the right to their own standards and expectations when it comes to dating or courtship. Out of respect for scripture and the various household rules we ask that all guests refrain from this behavior during this event. (Galatians 5:16)

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4. Love God and love others. Include others in your activities, conversations and games. Make them feel loved and welcomed. Have fun.

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5. You have a right to privacy. Private means private, not shared. This includes not only our bodies but also your thoughts and feelings. Keep conversations honest and loving. Gossiping, secrets and whispering are hurtful and should be avoided.

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6. No profanity or provocative language. Keep all language of any sorts “G”rated. (Proverbs 10:20)

 

7. You have the right to say NO to anything. Peer pressure is a very powerful  method of persuasion. No one likes to be pressured into doing or saying something. If you feel uncomfortable speak up or find an adult. You’re probably not alone.

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8. No inappropriate use of technology.

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“Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 2:5

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